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In conversation with Jessica Bonin 

Founder and owner of Lady Bonin's Tea Parlour

Founder and owner of Lady Bonin's Tea Parlour

“The act of ceremony is a mindfulness practice. By bringing your mind in to
focus with a choreographed set of movements and processes, you eliminate
opportunities for the mind to become distracted with the outside word. This
gives the mind less power and allows you to be an active creator in your world.
It’s an act of meditation, a yoga.”
 

Q: You’ve been involved in a love affair with tea for the past 8 years. Describe your

first experience that you recall of tea and the impression it make upon you?

 

A: It was my childhood circumstances that make it part of my every day life. In

boarding school it was the way we connected, the ceremony where we shared so

many moments of laughter, soothing sadness, reflecting on moments and just having

fun. My grandmother taught me about its mysticism by showing me how you can

taste love in tea, how the way you make it reflects the very nature of your mind at the

moment through its flavour. When I had these realisations I looked at tea in a whole

new way. It began a process of mindfulness and observation that created in me a

serenity, equipping me to handle my every day challenges.

 

Q: Tea has such an ancient and rich multi-cultural history. How do you embrace the

richness of the past and marry it with the contemporary?

 

A: I love the way ancient cultures harmonised with the world. They did not see a

separation between themselves and the environment. Tea is a means through which

I want to create a space where worlds collide, people connect and divides are

severed. Tea is common to all the world… it has the magic to bring people together

and bring people back to themselves.  We do this by creating ways people can

integrate tea into their daily lives in a contemporary way without overwhelming them

or requiring extended periods of time to prepare and enjoy. We summarise the

process that still allows a small opportunity to be present, thereby giving the

beneficial effects, without disrupting or creating expansive effort. The tea really does

the rest of the work.

 

Q: You talk about the healing properties of tea. Is this deeply important to you and

does it somehow reflect your own personal journey?

 

A: Tea is an incredible way to achieve serenity, and serenity creates the ability for us

to better handle our every day challenges. The samurai created something called

Wabi - The Way. It was a process by which they attributed every act as an art. By

being present one is able to calm the mind and simultaneously the body. This ability

is what made the Samurai so formidable. They moved this mind practice into other

arts and tea became an integral part of their means to attain serenity. The very

process of preparing tea requires focus… presence. The very physiological effects

produce the same conditions - uniting mind and body. When I am in this state I can

better handle my experiences, taking into consideration the consequences of every

thought, word and action, because it’s our thoughts, words and actions that create

our experiences. Tea has over 2000 different beneficial chemicals in each leaf that

has an interaction with the body, explaining why the Chinese founded it as a

medicine over 4000 years ago, and why it’s still so prominent today.

 

Q: You’ve just opened a tea ceremonial room. Describe to us the power behind the

act of ceremony?

 

A: The act of ceremony is a mindfulness practice. By bringing your mind in to focus

with a choreographed set of movements and processes, you eliminate opportunities

for the mind to become distracted with the outside word. This gives the mind less

power and allows you to be an active creator in your world. It’s an act of meditation, a

yoga. We hope to share this practice with people in our Cape Town and

Johannesburg spaces, providing them with respite from the chaos of the outside

world so they can also extend this into their home, inspiring change.

 

Q: You are a great reader. Share something with us that you recently encountered

that you made an intimate connection with, an insight

 

A: I am a lover of philosophy and old world spirituality. I just read an amazing book

on love called the 40 Rules of Love by Elif Safak. It delves into the life of my favourite

poet, Rumi. It talks about Rumi’s process of discovering the nature of the world and

the nature of himself through the ultimate nature of all things - love. As tea dictates,

we’re not separate from our environment. This book explores this concept, and if we

embrace this commonality, we can cultivate love as the core of all. And love is a

beautiful place from which we can heal the many divides of this world.

 

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